tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-217784912024-03-13T23:46:13.961+02:00A Dabbler's DiaryI am a dabbler. I know a little of everything, but not enough of anything for it to be truly practical. I have a wide variety of interests and goals (none of them especially connected to each other), and I have a bad habit of starting things and not finishing them. Aren't I precious? This is my diary.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-89609957896213329872009-01-01T01:04:00.000+02:002009-01-01T08:07:27.654+02:00A Clove of Truth: Stinging Yet Clarifying.My most sincere apologies to you all for such a prolonged absence from this, my Diary. I shall recommence regular postings presently. In the meantime, I would like to direct your attention to one of the greatest reasons for why I have been so silent as of late... I have helped launch a new online satirical publication, <a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://garlicpressnews.com/">The Garlic Press</a>, in order to challenge <span style="font-style: italic;">The Onion</span>'s unethical monopoly on reporting the fake news. I invite you all to join me and my partners as we celebrate our First Edition on this First Day of the New Year! (As an added bonus for the curious, I have forfeited my <span style="font-style: italic;">nom de guerre</span> while serving as an editor and correspondent for this new venture.)<br /><br />Happy 2009, Dear Readers! May this coming year provide us with all that we have lacked in the one now past.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-4958933702910892922008-10-01T22:04:00.008+03:002008-10-13T16:02:45.751+03:00Brokedown Budapest.Ah, Budapest. Famed throughout the world for its beauty, this city is practically impossible to classify; riddled with paradoxes, it is a spot where the Christian West met and clashed with the Islamic East, and today its Neoclassical estates and Bauhaus townhouses mingle chaotically with its opulent Turkish baths. Little physical evidence remains of Budapest's medieval past... the cost of being such a coveted prize in the imperial wars of Turks and Hapsburgs, and then later in the airstrikes and sieges of the Second World War. Adding further to this urban identity crisis are the drably imposing blockhouses, the legacy of the city's hurried reconstruction under the post-war Communist regime. The finishing touch to Budapest's unique flair is the fact that it is split in two, straddling the vast river Danube, Buda's fortress on Castle Hill watching, ever vigilant, over the bustling streets of streets of Pest on the other bank.<br /><br />My first day strolling down this streets, I found Budapest so breathtakingly gorgeous that, at one point in my excursion, I moaned aloud in admiration. Should I ever marry, I promised myself, I would insist on honeymooning here. As I stood at the midpoint of one of the city's three bridges spanning the Danube, gazing at the Gothic, palace-like Parliament, the past centuries flooded my senses, filling me with awe, as well as gratitude that I should have the opportunity to see all this with my own eyes.<br /><br />My second day strolling down these streets, I accidentally strolled right into the middle of an extremist hate rally... without realizing it. I initially thought it was some sort of parade, what with all the cordoned-off streets and toddlers cheerfully waving red-and-white striped flags. The heavy (and heavily armored) police presence made me reconsider this first impression, and when the main event—an irate mob shouting slogans and delivering salutes reminiscent of those seen in old fascism documentaries—appeared, I was forced to completely overhaul it. I observed more of those striped flags in this group, now draped like capes over the shoulders of youths dressed in black and wearing ski masks. Feeling somewhat of an outsider to the enthusiasm of the crowd surging around me, I snapped a few hasty photos and then got the hell out of there. Considering what I learned happened later, my decision turned out to be a prudent one. This strike force, members of a radical right party, met up with another set of demonstrators—a combined gathering of nonviolent activists for tolerance and Roma campaigning for their rights—and decided to express themselves politically, attacking first the pacifists (hardly a fair fight, if you ask me) and subsequently the riot police who attempted to stop them. Several dozen canisters of tear gas later, the demonstration was halted, its members scattered after a hearty effort to spread their compelling message of "saving" Hungary—apparently by destroying it (the numerous vandalized cars and shops along the avenue they marched on can attest to this).<br /><br />Feeling a need to unwind, I took a retreat to the Széchenyi Baths, the largest thermal bathhouse in Budapest, offering an array of indoor and outdoor pools with water temperatures ranging as high as 104<span style="font-family:Arial,Helvetica,Geneva,Swiss,SunSans-Regular;">°</span>F. A crippling sense of exhaustion, coupled with a loss of direction, had crept up from nowhere and overtaken me: my next stop, after a three-day exploration of Budapest, was to be Croatia, but here it was already the middle of Day Five in Hungary's capital, and I still had made no effort to move from my plush hostel. Quite simply, in spite of my encounter with the neo-fascists, I did not want to leave Budapest. I enjoyed wandering its wide avenues by day, and slurping goulash and sipping sweet white wine by night. Weeks spent traveling alone, answerable to no one but myself, and now I was beginning to chafe against even my own vague, self-assigned itinerary. The pressure to make the most of each country, each city, see and do everything I was "supposed" to... all of this was burning me out.<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">What if I don't want to go to Croatia</span>? I wondered as I floated in warm, watery meditation. I had, after all, started this voyage with the intention to travel freely, no obligation and no schedule. Hell, the only reason I added Croatia to the list was because every single person in the States who found out I was backpacking around Eastern Europe had eagerly asked me, "So, you're going to Croatia, right?" to the point that I had started to worry there might be some kind of secret I was missing out on there. And now it seemed like most backpackers I had met went there to party on the beach—a somewhat sad activity to try on your own. (To any Croatians out there who may be reading this, I mean no offense—I am sure yours is a fine country.) <span style="font-style: italic;">Okay, Croatia's out</span>, I decided with a (dignified and authoritative) splash. <span style="font-style: italic;">We'll save it for </span>Eurotrip 2: The Revenge. <span style="font-style: italic;">But where to go now?</span> I couldn't stay indefinitely in Budapest; that would defeat the entire idea of backpacking AROUND Eastern Europe. <span style="font-style: italic;">Tomorrow, then.</span> <span style="font-style: italic;">I'm leaving tomorrow. I'll figure out where when I get to the train station.</span> All I knew is that I had a plane to catch out of Prague on October 3...Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-44116779370537466692008-09-23T02:00:00.003+03:002008-10-13T16:07:24.940+03:00Mama Said There'd Be Days Like This.The day started off badly when I awoke in the bathtub. This was around 5AM, and I was not certain what had made me decide to curl up there, fully clothed, in the hostel's bathroom for the night; but I knew I didn't want to stay there, so I quickly pried out my contact lenses (by this point solidly adhered to my eyeballs), washed my face, and snuck into the dormitory next door. I figured I would sleep late, perhaps until 10AM, then go normally about my day in downtown Budapest.<br /><br />When I did get up, after 11 o'clock, it was with a vicious Harpy of a hangover. <em>How could this be</em>, I asked myself, <em>when I don't remember over-indulging last night?</em> Then again, I didn't remember what had inspired me to crawl into the bathtub either, so I was going to have to accept the fact that I had indeed drunk too much and figure out how to get through the next few hours as painlessly as possible. This, I realized too late, is what comes of putting that old adage "If you can't beat 'em, join 'em" into practice, and going out the previous night with a group of hard-drinking Australians and Irish to experience the city's nightlife.<br /><br />An hour and a large mug of coffee later, I was still feeling god-awful, the inside of my head pounding like a punk drummer. Too much acidic caffeine on an empty, uneasy stomach is a bad idea, it turns out, and I was forced to retreat to the bathroom and converse extensively with the toilet. <em>Great</em>, I thought, <em>there is no way the hostel receptionist missed hearing</em> <strong>that</strong><em>, so now my current condition is obvious to all</em>. I opted to return to bed and nap for a couple hours in order to relieve my headache (that was by now tempting me to rip out my own eyes), desperately hoping that my body would give me adequate warning should it require a return to the bathroom.<br /><br />I slept all goddamn day. Or at least I stayed in bed for that duration. Much of the time there was spent mentally whimpering over my throbbing skull, alternately freezing or sweating under the covers, and cursing the over-affectionate couple sharing the room with me for their obnoxiously loud kissing and pillow talk. (Come on, people, this is what private rooms are made for!) Finally, around 6:30 in the evening, I arose and washed, determined to eat something and not allow an entire day in Budapest to pass by un-enjoyed. I decided to dine at the restaurant most recommended in town by my Lonely Planet guide, which turned out to be a mere five-minute walk from my lodgings.<br /><br />Note to self, and to others: telling your body, "Fuck you, I am going to enjoy myself, whether you like it or not," then ordering a thick, creamy garlic soup for an appetizer—all shortly after having been physically ill—will NOT convince your body that you, and not it, are in control of the situation. I had just taken a second bite of my main course (a savory roasted pork and potato dish with vegetables) when my stomach <em>strongly</em> suggested that I figure out where this classy restaurant's classy restroom might be. Stumbling past the bemused hostess, annoyed waiters and oblivious diners, I eventually found the door with the desired "man" symbol, reminded every step of the way by my roiling midsection that I did not have much longer to delay. Resolute that I would not lose my dignity in front of Budapest's Sunday-evening crowd, I threw open the door, rushed past the one person standing at the urinal and into a blessedly free stall. Then, in absolute agony now, I proceeded to wait, hovering uncertainly over the porcelain bowl, still determined to not have one more witness to my misery. I don't know what the hell this guy was doing <em>at</em> his urinal, but my ears informed me that he was not using it for its intended purpose, nor was he leaving. Finally, defeated, I again leaned over the bowl and released the contents of my rich meal into (and slightly onto) it. Naturally, even in my distracted state, I could still hear the disgusted scoff of the man at the urinal, apparently believing the sounds emanating from my stall to be of a somewhat different nature. Having thus done his part to ensure my embarrassment, he finally left the restroom... and it was <em>then</em> that I discovered I had chosen a stall bereft of toilet paper.<br /><br />Refusing to end the evening by abruptly fleeing the premises, I hid in the stall until a lull in the human traffic occurred, at which point I bolted out to the sink area and scavenged a handful of paper towels, returning to the scene of the crime with my contraband. A few passes with absorbent papers and the area was as good as new—and I even remembered not to flush them, gracefully sidestepping a potentially even more public disaster. Somewhat more composed, thanks to this triumph, I returned to my table freshened and refreshed, and—amazingly—managed to finish my meal without further incident. I even pushed my luck and bought an ice cream cone while taking a post-dinner evening constitutional down Budapest's scenic boulevards. Ah, to be young and to live dangerously.<br /><br />Now, why did I decide to share this rather personal story with you (you may wonder)? Well, in part, to advise readers against drinking to the point that passing up your bedroom for the bathroom seems like a good idea. That, and I rather enjoyed having the opportunity to write a piece with such an unusual opening line. It turns out that there is a silver lining to regrettable moments resulting from decisions made under the influence, after all.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-9061937273213636362008-09-18T18:26:00.002+03:002008-10-13T17:06:24.158+03:00Where the Wild Things Are?If, as a distant church bell tolled midnight, in a room illuminated by a single candelabra, the flames causing shadows to flicker and writhe across the walls, while the wind moaned outside and rattled the windowpanes, I put my lips to your ear and softly whispered into the darkness one word, "<em>Transylvania</em>," what would run through your mind? (Sure, probably "What the hell are you trying here? Get the $@#! off of me!" But besides that, I mean.) Odds are that images of decrepit castles clutching at forbidding mountaintops would rise unbidden from your subconscious; or perhaps a pack of wolves stalking through a misty forest under the pales moon, a cloud of screeching bats swarming up into the night... and almost certainly a dark-haired, sinister aristocrat flashing a beguiling, hungry smile. Something along those lines, yes?<br /><br />Well, the first thing <em>I</em> noticed as my train pulled into the city of Braşov, my first stop in Transylvania, was the giant Hollywood-style "BRASOV" sign propped up proudly on the mountain overlooking the town. I realized then that the only bloodsuckers I was likely to encounter here were the ravenous-looking taxi drivers lining up outside the train station, already sizing up me and my backpack.<br /><br />Happily, I soon discovered that much of the rest of Braşov has been left unmolested by the groping hands of "Progress." Warding off aggressive cabbies with the sign of the cross, I caught a bus to the city's historic district, where, among cobbled streets winding around lovingly-preserved traditional houses, I found my hostel, all of this presided over by the Black Church, a looming Gothic cathedral (so-named because of the makeover it received from a fire centuries ago). Braşov's residents have done an excellent job of retaining its antiquated aspects, making it an interesting destination for sightseers, without going too far and turning it into a soulless theme park. The one exception here—other than the tacky sign*, of course—was the restaurant recommended to those visitors seeking traditional Romanian cuisine (if "traditional" does indeed mean jacking up the prices and dressing the waiters in peasant garb). I tagged along with a few Aussies for this experience, but our attempt to dine here was thwarted by our collective aversion to "<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Turbo-folk">turbo-folk</a>," a popular style of music here that, to my ears, sounds like a Looney Tunes-inspired techno polka. After less than five minutes at our table, we all bolted while our serflike server's back was turned, and opted instead for another popular Romanian dish: pizza.<br /><br />Transylvania is a region difficult to catalog; through the ages it has been claimed by numerous peoples and nations. Today is population is mainly made up of a combination of ethnic Germans, Hungarians, and Roma (the minority formerly known as Gypsies), in addition to those of Romanian descent. In an effort to better understand this melting pot—and sometimes clash—of culture, I sought aid from representatives of yet another minority group in this land, this one an endangered species: the Romanian Peace Corps volunteers. Yes, Peace Corps is here too; you will find that, if you look hard enough, we are just about everywhere. Like the American middle class, however, this brand of Peace Corps volunteer is slowly fading into myth and legend. As the countries of Eastern Europe continue to develop, or join the EU, Peace Corps is being phased out of the area. I found these guys to be an odd bunch—inhabiting apartments with electricity, running water and often DSL internet, instead of the mud-brick huts with bucket baths that I associate with Peace Corps—but very hospitable.<br /><br />After my performing a sort of Transylvanian tango—sweeping around to explore medieval castles and fortresses, interspersed with visits to towns inhabited by American volunteers, but always ending up back in Braşov—curiosity led me further afield, out of Transylvania and into Maramureş, the northernmost region of Romania. This part of the country, long walled off from the outside world by the Carapathian Mountains, is one of the last areas in Europe where rural peasant culture still exists—thrives, even—and it was here that I met some Peace Corps volunteers whose experiences I could relate to more easily (with respect to isolation and limited transport). I had originally considered giving this out-of-the-way region a miss, but I am now grateful I made the effort; my flagging enthusiasm and energy were completely rejuvenated by apples plucked straight from the tree in mountain orchards and stimulating conversation with my hosts over glasses of <em>ţuică</em>, the throat-scorching local plum-brandy. And so I returned to Transylvania yesterday, refreshed and ready for more excursions. I am currently based in the northern city of Cluj-Napoca (not Braşov!), but come 3:30AM I will be railbound for the baths of Budapest, my romp through the Romanian wilds finally come to an end.<br /><br />I should add that, although I admit to getting a thrill from riding a midnight train past the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Borgo_pass">Borgo Pass</a> made famous by one Jonathan Harker, after a few days in Transylvania you tend to forget those fanciful tales of undead fiends chasing scantily-clad maidens through the gloom. There are just so many interesting real attractions to this region, you eventually stop letting your imagination run away with you and accept the fact that vampires are simply the stuff of enjoyable fiction.<br /><br />Now if only the same could be said for all these goddamn werewolves....<br /><br />__________________________________________________________<br />* <em>In its defense, at least you are allowed to hike up the mountain and touch</em> <strong>this</strong> <em>sign. Some readers may recall, I got </em><a href="http://dabblerdiary.blogspot.com/2006/04/topic-of-cancer.html"><em>chased by an LAPD helicopter</em></a><em> the one time I tried this with the atual Hollywood sign.</em>Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-18911071928864116092008-09-07T14:20:00.005+03:002008-10-13T17:30:40.035+03:00My Hostel for a Dingo.This trip is turning into quite the educational tour. One interesting fact I have learned is that during the summer months Eastern Europe becomes home to roving groups of young Australian backpackers. Correction: make that roving <span style="font-weight: bold;">HORDES</span><span style="font-style: italic;"> </span>of young Australian backpackers. I think that I may have run into more denizens of Down Under than I have actual locals. I wouldn't mind this so much, since my fellow travelers have been (mostly) warm and welcoming, but the rub is that their good cheer is being fueled by the consumption of massive amounts of beer. From what I have observed, it is a rite of passage for Australian youths, upon graduating from university, to tour the whole of Europe for a year... all the while in the grips of a grueling, never-ending bender. A few months in, by the time they reach the eastern region of the continent, most of them are well into the ugly thick of this [your expletive here]ing bar crawl. As such, when they are not partying, they are comparing notes on the best cities to party <span style="font-style: italic;">in</span>, as well as the various nationalities of the girls they've, er, "known" thus far on the trip, and where the easiest, prettiest girls can be found (Belgrade, by overwhelming consensus). Now, it just so happens that my list of planned lodgings corresponds almost exactly with the bulk of theirs, so I am now taking a break from trekking in order to heavily revise my itinerary, so my path will intersect theirs as little as possible. Don't get me wrong, I don't dislike (again, most of) these Matilda waltzers, but I'm attempting to engage in a voyage with very different goals from theirs, one of solitude and contemplation, not <a href="http://www.realbeer.com/fun/games/games-57.php">flip cup</a> marathons. (Dear lord! I realize only now that I have gone and matured a little! The horror!)<br /><br />And so I sit, hunched over books and maps in a hostel in Bucharest, Romania, having arrived a couple days ago by train from Bulgaria. After departing Sofia, I continued on to the cities of Plovdiv (renowned for its numerous Roman ruins and "Old Town" quarter) and Veliko Târnovo (Bulgaria's medieval capital), also by train. If someone had suggested to me, say, five years ago, that one day I would travel alone through Eastern Europe via its railways, I would never have believed them. In spite of my recent conclusion to two years spent living and traveling through West Africa, I am not a naturally adventurous person. Those who know me best would probably tell you that my idea of a fun Friday night is going out to a good movie and following it up by having a quiet drink with a few friends. Still... I could get used to this. The lands through which I'm wandering... <span style="font-style: italic;">Bulgaria</span>, <span style="font-style: italic;">Romania</span>... their names, and those of their towns, intoxicate me as I sound them out aloud, rolling them off my tongue, promising me an earthy mystique. And they do not disappoint.<br /><br />In Veliko Târnovo, I had the exciting experience of meeting one of the authors of the Romania and Bulgaria entries in the <a href="http://www.lonelyplanet.com/">Lonely PLanet</a> guide, which is my preferred travel bible. To his credit, the guy was trying to keep a low profile, just saying he was a travel writer when asked his business, but eventually (after enough beers) he slipped up and I was subsequently able to identify him. Talking to someone I admire is, for me, a lot like dating—I'm not very good at it. The same problems manifest: first, I try to act "above it all," like hanging out with them is no big deal; then I show off, trying too hard to impress with my knowledge and wit; finally, I get self-conscious and awkward, uncertain whether I should retreat and leave them alone or just simply <span style="font-style: italic;">shut the hell up</span>. Fortunately, for once it seems I broke this vicious cycle, because not only did the man NOT sneak out of the hostel to avoid me, he even gave me his business card and an invitation to look him up when I am back in New York.<br /><br />Like Sofia, Bucharest is a capital city with a less than stellar reputation when compared to other towns in the area. Still, it does have some sights to recommend it for a visit, such as <a href="http://www.cdep.ro/pls/dic/site.page?id=27">the Palace of Parliament</a>, the largest and most expensive civil (i.e., non-military) administrative building in the world, built during the last years in the reign of the late, not-so-great Romanian dictator <a href="http://ro.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nicolae_Ceau%C3%85%C5%B8escu">Nicolae Ceauşescu</a>. This man had the brilliant idea of leveling a large portion of Bucharest's picturesque historic district in order to construct this monstrosity of bureaucracy. Ultimately, Ceauşescu got his comeuppance—via firing squad—in the bloody 1989 revolution, and there are still many standing examples to give the curious an idea why Bucharest was once known as "the Paris of the East." Other highlights include <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Museum_of_the_Romanian_Peasant">the Museum of the Romanian Peasant</a>, where, in addition to a room devoted solely to Romania's communist past (busts of Lenin abound here), there is an impressive collection of textiles and household artifacts, an entire 19th-century home, and Orthodox Christian icons made of painted glass. Saint George is a popular figure in these latter items; my particular favorite was a comic-like depiction of him smirking back at me as he shoved his spear down the dragon's throat, as though he were bragging, "Yeah, I'm the shit." In most of the other icons featuring him, he's still gazing at us, but appears to have been pumped full of Xanax. Often featured as well in these images is a little guy sitting snugly behind George on his horse, brandishing a tankard and seeming to be really enjoying himself. I naturally assume that this is the artist's representation of one of the hundreds of Australians teeming through this beautiful land.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-90210074174555584132008-08-30T23:59:00.006+03:002009-03-25T04:58:30.302+02:00An Innocent, a Broad...Important things to remember to forget to pack, in order to make your international voyage more challenging (and thus enjoyable): a towel, for use after showers in hostels; an iPod charger (assuming you bring an iPod on your trip, which I did); a Nalgene bottle, or some other container intended for the transport of refreshing, crucial drinking water. I like to think that only wimps "come prepared."<br /><br />I flew into Sofia, the capital of Bulgaria, a couple days ago. I was aided in my planning process by a friend and fellow retired Peace Corps volunteer, who offered me the following invaluable advice to make my overseas excursion more enjoyable: order kosher. It turns out that on some international flights, when reserving your ticket, you may select a "type" of in-flight meal, an attempt by the airline to defer to passengers' dietary preferences. Examples of such specialized meal options include vegetarian, low-calorie, low-cholesterol, gluten-free, halal, and, yes, kosher. My friend, on his flight back to the United States, sat next to a gentleman who ordered the kosher meal, and observed that not only did the man receive his tray before everyone else, but the food was of higher quality and quantity than my friend's own ordinary, gentile dish. And so I was counseled to benefit from my comrade's experience and request the kosher plate, which I did... not because I especially cared about what I would eat on the plane, but because the airline was German, and I am an ass.<br /><br />According to various guidebooks, Sofia is one of the least attractive capitals in Eastern Europe; if this is true, then I cannot wait to see the others! I was warned to expect an urban sprawl of gloomy Soviety boxes, but plenty of older architecture abounds, mixed creatively with edgy, newer buildings. The side streets, in some areas, bring to mind fun, quirky parts of Brooklyn or New York's East Village. The signs <span style="font-style: italic;">on</span> the streets, however, are going to take some getting used to, as not only do Bulgarians speak a different language, they use an entirely different alphabet! The Cyrillic alphabet, used in Russia, Macedonia, Serbia, Ukraine, and Mongolia (among other nations), was invented here in Bulgaria, and is a point of national pride. It is thus both amusing and depressing to witness the West's (i.e., America's) corroding influence on Bulgarian culture, as many of the flashier advertisements around the city use English slogans, or a bizarre mix of English and Cyrillic. Out of morbid curiosity, I wandered into a McDonald's in downtown Sofia to observe the menu, and noticed that a good number of their items were labeled "Mak-[gibberish]" or "[gibberish] Mak-[gibberish]." I was reasonably certain, though, that I knew what the "[gibberish]-Mak" was.<br /><br />When the street signs aren't making my head turn, the Bulgarian women are. Don't get me wrong, I am not ogling (really!), it's just that I cannot get over this simple fact: all women here look cool—at least, the young ones do. The older ones all look tired... probably from the effort of looking cool for years at a time. To my eyes, Bulgarian men look like any regular guys I'd see on a street in America, but the women seem somehow... <span style="font-style: italic;">European</span>? Does that work? It's the only adjective I can come up with to describe their collective appearance. In any case, they all look like either models or punk rockers, nothing in between.<br /><br />Other initial observations... unlike Americans, Bulgarians do not throw coins in fountains, just their cigarette butts. Byzantine church artwork is <span style="font-style: italic;">amazing</span>, dazzling and ostentatious in a manner that truly inspires awe. The Lady's Market, a large outdoor bazaar, is populated almost exclusively by older people; the only young people in evidence there are cops and kids being dragged by the hand (the kids, not the cops). I have yet to figure out where the younger generation buys <span style="font-size:0;">their</span> food. Oh, and I ran into a familiar problem, often experienced in Burkina... that of "Sorry, no small change," followed by a waiter's satisfied smirk. My solution? "Sorry, smaller tip." I'm not handing <span style="font-style: italic;">anyone </span>30% gratuities, especially just because they refuse to give me small bills.<br /><br />Finally, I will leave you with one more story. As jet lag was causing me to nod off by 7pm the day I arrived, I did not end up going out my first night in Sofia. However, for those of you curious about the Bulgarian nightlife, here is a breakdown of my second evening in town, during which I tagged along with a multinational hodgepodge of other hostel guests: beer at an Irish bar, two dollars; dancing at a Bulgarian birthday party you crashed, three dollars; getting propositioned by a persistent hooker when you leave the party, who won't take "no" for an answer and won't let go of your crotch... priceless.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-20060924866261902502008-08-29T14:25:00.004+03:002008-08-29T15:52:51.640+03:00The Definition of "Typecast."Just because I am currently backpacking through Eastern Europe does not mean I do not pay attention to the news. And by news, I mean the truly important events that are taking place throughout the world, affecting our lives, and those of our children, for years and decades to come. No, I'm not talking about Senator Barack Obama's nomination at the Democratic National Convention; that's not news, everyone already knew it was going to happen. I'm talking about Hollywood scandal! The actor David Duchovny, best known for his portrayal of the disturbed but brilliant FBI agent Fox Mulder on the cult show <a href="http://www.imdb.com/find?s=all&q=x+files&x=0&y=0"><span style="font-style: italic;">The X Files</span></a>, has <a href="http://edition.cnn.com/2008/SHOWBIZ/TV/08/28/duchovny.rehab.ap/index.html">gone into rehab for sex addiction</a>. Now why do I take the time from my Bulgarian sightseeing to point this out? It just so happens that Mr. Duchovny's latest role, for which he won a Golden Globe, is on the Showetime television series <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0904208/"><span style="font-style: italic;">Californication</span></a>... in which he just so happens to play a sex addict. And I think that's funny. Unfortunate and cosmically poetic, but definitely funny.<br /><br />Talk about your method acting...Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-25166520209440247832008-08-27T09:10:00.003+03:002008-10-13T17:34:30.882+03:00American Alien.<div style="text-align: left;">It is hard to believe that over 2 years have passed since I last posted an entry here (the "under construction" notice notwithstanding). I had hoped life would go back to some semblance of normal when my plane touched down on American soil a few weeks ago. But no, a strong sense of expatriatism still lingers in my veins along with the <a href="http://dabblerinburkina.blogspot.com/2008/05/breaking-news-peter-pan-ods-on-pixie.html">pixie dust</a>, and I have apparently forgotten what "normal" means: I cannot adequately express here my shock when I landed in Washington, DC, to discover that African airlines work better than American ones! We are the most powerful, influential country in the world—(this is still true, right? What else have I missed in 2 years?)—and I speak from some experience now when I say that many other nations aspire to develop in our image... yet the Air Burkina <meta content="Microsoft Word 10" name="Originator"><style> <!-- /* Style Definitions */ p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal {mso-style-parent:""; margin:0in; margin-bottom:.0001pt; mso-pagination:widow-orphan; font-size:12.0pt; font-family:"Times New Roman"; mso-fareast-font-family:"Times New Roman";} @page Section1 {size:8.5in 11.0in; margin:1.0in 1.25in 1.0in 1.25in; mso-header-margin:.5in; mso-footer-margin:.5in; mso-paper-source:0;} div.Section1 {page:Section1;} --> </style>
<br />airplane I flew on (which I only half-joked with other Peace Corps volunteers would be my last bush taxi ride in Burkina) operated better, on all levels, than any American airline I have flown in years! This place, Burkina Faso, is consistently a strong contender in the "Top 3 Poorest Countries in the World" Game, but please note that its national airline can <span style="font-style: italic;">still </span>offer me a decent meal on a timely flight. After a layover in Dakar, Senegal, I continued in similarly luxurious style, this time with a South African service. It was not until I boarded an American-run airplane for the last leg of my return home that my itinerary—and subsequent treatment by customer "service"—went all to hell. (Honestly, Dear Readers: what <span style="font-style: italic;">have</span> you been doing with the country in my absence?)
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<br />I have been running on sheer adrenaline since my plane finally landed, driving all over New England to visit people, averaging between four and five hours of sleep a night. That's probably not good if you started out such a marathon already jet-lagged. Then, a couple weeks after my return to the United States, I drove down to New York City, the place I missed most during my self-imposed exile, to visit friends and again bask in the grimy beauty that is the Big Apple. A mere couple days after my arrival, I found myself sitting in [daughter of famous person]'s giant loft apartment, drinking champagne with her and [other famous person]. I'm not telling you this to brag (well, much), but to emphasize just how surreal my life has gotten since I left Burkina Faso. Understand what I am saying here: my life seemed more normal in <span style="font-style: italic;">Africa</span> than in the US! Even <span style="font-style: italic;">I</span> think that's messed up! </div>
<br />I came back to America woefully behind in the times (I've heard rumors of some device called an "iPhone"), with little in the way of employment prospects. Everyone my age has grown up while I was gone, getting married, babies, or houses. While I appreciate seeing my friends and family, eating the wonderful food, and watching <span style="font-style: italic;">The Dark Knight</span> in IMAX<em></em>™ (the way God intended), I just don't know where I fit in right now in America, or even <span style="font-style: italic;">if</span> I do. Solution? Leave again, as soon as possible. And so I shall—tomorrow, in fact—for Bulgaria, then a few other countries in Eastern Europe (Romania, Hungary, Croatia, the Czech Republic), trying to clear my head and come up with some kind of game plan, all the while blowing through the meager readjustment stipend Peace Corps allotted to me when I closed my service.
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<br />Why Eastern Europe, you ask? Well, those of you who read the <a href="http://dabblerdiary.blogspot.com/2006/02/stupid-goddamn-peace-corps.html">very first entry</a> on this very blog, way back when, may remember how I was originally <span style="font-style: italic;">supposed</span> to go to Eastern Europe with Peace Corps, and how I threw something of a temper tantrum when I ended up being assigned to Georgia. So Peace Corps sent me instead to West Africa for 2 years of service (and the tone the guy responsible for re-assigning me used when he informed me made it clear he considered this a punishment). Oh, and I'd just like take a moment here to say to all those people who gave me all that grief for turning down Georgia, based on certain international events of the last few weeks: <span style="font-weight: bold;">I told you so.</span> But my consuming desire to see the wild mountains of Romania never diminished... and now I have the time, and the means, to make my dream come true, if only for a month.
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<br />Don't get me wrong, I'm not down on America. This is a very exciting time to be American, for all the obvious reasons that need not be re-hashed here. It's just that I haven't quite figured out how to, well, become "American" again, and I need a chance to readjust, and to reassess what exactly I am going to do, now that I am no longer being directed. Rest assured, Dear Readers, I will come back to the US again, this next time for good, perhaps. But until then: the adventure continues! Come along, why don't you?
<br />Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-79738057813584985182008-08-01T11:19:00.007+03:002008-08-01T11:30:24.174+03:00Under Construction.Thank you all for visiting this, the very first incarnation of A Dabbler's Diary. At this time we are still en route between Burkina Faso and the United States, having closed <a href="http://dabblerinburkina.blogspot.com/">The Burkina Files</a>, and unable to soil the pages of the internet with our sordid prose. Please visit us again later, after we have blown the dust off our Diary and posted something wry and amusing for your reading pleasure.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1149306103909889472006-06-04T11:02:00.001+03:002008-09-19T12:13:48.517+03:00Au Revoir. (Or as the French would say, Le Revoir.)Well, Dear Readers, the time has come for me to finally put my money where my keyboard is. In several hours, I will be catching a flight to Washington, DC, to officially register with the Peace Corps for volunteer service in Burkina Faso. Come Tuesday evening, I will be settled on a plane, flying out to West Africa, along with a few dozen other breathless, terrified volunteers. I'm scared. I'm excited. I'm not ready. But it's time, so I'll pretend to be ready.<br /><br />On another, exciting note, reclusive blues legend <a href="http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=82774211">Emphysema Jones</a> recently emerged from semi-retirement with an offer to take a stab at recording my opus, <a href="http://dabblerdiary.blogspot.com/2006/03/agency-blues.html">"The Agency Blues."</a> This was quite a surprise, and a great honor as well, to receive such a tribute before my departure. Apparently my first attempt at songwriting touched Mr. Jones personally—he informed me that he, too, got his start in the bowels of a talent agency! Oh, the irony. Anyway, please check out the track—I hope you enjoy. I know I certainly did.<br /><br />Okay, back to business. It has been a lot of fun, kids. I cannot express how much I have appreciated your dedication (and tolerance) in reading my posts. And for those of you who are curious about my ensuing adventures, please look up my overseas blog, <a href="http://dabblerinburkina.blogspot.com/">A Dabbler's Diary: The Burkina Files</a>. I shall continue to dabble my way through life—as only I can—with a running commentary. Okay now, I'm getting emotional... partly from writing this last post, and partly from the effects of that last glass of scotch. Gotta run... I have to finish packing, as well as get at least a <i>few</i> hours sleep before my flight.<br /><br />Ever yours,<br /><br />DabblerDabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1149003654078654372006-06-01T09:37:00.001+03:002008-09-19T12:16:16.473+03:00Love, Sex, and Q-Tips.I shall, if you don't mind, briefly take a break from my usual patter of sarcasm. Normally I don't like to write something along the lines of a public journal entry... I have a personal diary for that kind of stuff; in this case, however, it sort of has some pertinence to all my preparations for my imminent departure to Africa (less than a week away now). If this bores any of you, Dear Readers, fear not—I promise to be back to my usual form before this post is through.<br /><br />My family is going through all the stuff we have kept in storage in the attic, the idea being that this is a good time to take another look at what warrants saving, before I start my oversea service (what with a lot of my personal possessions cluttering up the place). Yesterday, it fell upon me to go through a big box filled with old pictures and notebooks from my high school and college years. I reclaimed several packets of photos that I had given up for lost a long time ago, sifted through old letters from school friends and family members, and then I came upon <b>It</b>. I don't know why, but I don't usually keep mementos from past romantic relationships. I don't even make a grand gesture of burning letters or gifts from exes, I usually just thoss them in along with the other things headed to the trash. It came as a surprise, then, to discover one solitary letter from the first (and, thus far, only) girl I have loved. Now, that may not sound like much, but the significance of this letter was that it was the catalyst for our relationship; I won't get into all the details, but suffice it to say this letter had forced me to realize that I was both head-over-heels for the girl and an idiot for not being with her. My dilemma now is what I should do with this recently-discovered artifact. On the one hand, I would have to be at least partially dead inside to simply crumple up the letter and throw it away; on the other, isn't it a tad bit obsessive to hold onto something that is a token (no matter how sweet) of a relationship long-over and ultimately soured? Consider the positions reversed: I know that whenever I have dated a girl, it has made me a little wary if she overly treasures something that an old boyfriend gave her... it's not always the case, but the relationship may be in trouble if I have to compete with a ghost for her affections. Still, I don't <i>want</i> to lose this letter again now that I've found it; the memories it invokes are intoxicating. Man, I really don't need this kind of internal debate right before I leave the country. Don't worry, Dear Readers: I am not asking for your pity, or for any sort of advice. This is just something a little more personal than my usual stuff, that I decided to share.<br /><br />Now, speaking of love, and of sex (more the latter than the former)... does anyone else out there experience a degree of difficulty in buying condoms? I hadn't made such a purchase in a long time, but I did the other day, and I'm embarrassed to admit that it hasn't gotten any easier for me. In some ways (<i>said the blogger</i>), I am a very private person, and I really don't like for the rest of the world to know when I am getting—or at least <b>hoping</b> to get—lucky. Maybe it's the fact that I was brought up in a state founded by puritans, or that I went to Catholic school for a couple years, or that I am half-Jewish, but apparently I've got a LOT of guilt swirling around inside me. I get slightly uncomfortable just going into a pharmacy and walking <i>past</i> the condom section in an aisle when I'm only trying to buy soap. So when my reason for being in that particular aisle is to actually get condoms, and <i>not</i> soap, I probably pace up and down that walkway about 5 times, intently looking at everything BUT the rubbers, trying to find the right moment when absolutely no one is looking at me so I can quickly snatch a packet from the shelf, my secret safe from prying eyes. I'm unfortunately also one of those people who tries SO hard to be casual about buying these things that I'll buy a bunch of other random items too, like toothpaste, batteries, pens, and gum—making it all the more obvious that my sole reason for entering that store was to attain a pack of Trojans. I even tell myself, mid-charade, "Well, I needed a giant pack of Q-Tips anyway," and sometimes I even believe it. Then, inevitably, when I finally make it to the check-out line, the area is swarming with little kids, and I feel like even more of a perv; I do <u>not</u> want to be the very first person in their lives to introduce them to the concept of sex, safe or otherwise! As I endeavor to hide my shameful purchase behind the deluxe package of Q-Tips also in hand, I grow even redder, and I start to sweat. I don't want to know what I must look like to the cashier by the time I arrive in front of her. Naturally, it's the pack of condoms that needs the price check, and gets separated from everything else, held out on display for all the shoppers behind me. After hurriedly paying for my goods, I stumble out of the store, promising myself that next time—<i>next time</i> I will have overcome this handicap.<br /><br />Gosh, sometimes I wonder why I am so often single.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1148424450838031392006-05-26T08:46:00.000+03:002008-01-12T13:33:43.065+02:00Cell Wars: Cingular Strikes BackHello, one and all! (Mostly one, I imagine, because that's probably how many readers I have after nearly 2 weeks of bloggerly silence.) I am back from my adventures in New York City, and am scrambling to tie up all loose ends before leaving the United States for West Africa in roughly a week and a half. Just a heads-up: I have made an administrative decision to start a new blog during my volunteer work overseas (the Peace Corps has several stipulations about blogs run by their volunteers, and I am afraid that this one is a little too irreverant to make the cut), which shall be titled "<b>A Dabbler's Diary: The Burkina Files,"</b> a sequel of sorts to this little rag. From what I have observed in blogs run by current volunteers in Burkina Faso, they are able to update them roughly every few weeks to a month... since I hardly expect everyone to be obsessively checking my blog day after day, waiting with baited breath for a new entry, you may, if you like, <a href="mailto:dabblerdiary@gmail.com">send me</a> your email address, and you will receive notice of when the blog is updated. Tune in again soon... I'll have a link to this new blog up and running shortly!<br /><br />And now, enough shameless advertising of my soon-to-be new blog. I'm back, and I've got a story to tell, involving a boy, his cell phone, and a bunch of $&@%!'s who run a cellular company.<br /><br />I really do have to hand it to the folks at Cingular Wireless: they know when they've got you by the balls, and they're not afraid to squeeze. You may remember my <a href="http://dabblerdiary.blogspot.com/2006/04/great-cell-phone-massacre-of-06.html">earlier issues</a> with them, the last time my cell phone went on strike. In the spine-tingling conclusion of that harrowing tale, sheer determination triumphed over the unholy alliance of corporate greed and bureaucratic red tape, and the little guy - me - won; I got a new phone, and I did not have to pay a dime. But now, Dear Readers, Cingular has opted to continue the saga... with a vengeance. Just yesterday, my new phone - barely a month into its young life - learned a new trick: simply put, when using it, I can no longer hear what the person on the other line is saying, unless I put them on speakerphone. This makes holding an ordinary phone conversation incredibly awkward, as everyone within 20 feet of me can hear everything I'm shouting into the phone, as well as the recipient's response. On the upside, there is now no further reason for the government to tap my phone - all they need do is stand near me. I took the phone into a Cingular store to see if they could fix it (not exactly holding my breath), and while there learned that: a) the ear-piece speaker had blown and was impossible to restore; and b) my 1-month grace period to return the device had coincidentally <i>just</i> ended days ago, and if I wanted a replacement phone I would have to pay full price. Dear evil geniuses at Cingular Wireless: disregarding my previous threats of sodomy to your persons with your own electronic gadgets, can we not agree that you already charge me more than enough each month (what with phone bills, "government fees," and whatnot), that it may be a little excessive to specifically design your hardware to expire a day after their warranties expire? I deal with all the other technological glitches of this phone quite passively... from the interrupted service, to the sudden loss of signal, to the mysterious connection with another person's phone conversation when I'm in midsentence. Is it the money? Or is it the perverse pleasure you gain from knowing you screwed over yet another long-suffering customer?<br /><br />Fear not, Dear Readers, there is a light at the tunnel. I took this latest development as a sign that I should finally look into terminating my cell phone service, as I will be leaving the country in - let's face it - a matter of days, now. Now, pay attention - this is why it is a good reason to join the Peace Corps (or at least <i>tell</i> people you're joining the Peace Corps): when I called to cancel my account, I still had over a year left on my "agreement" with Cingular... however, the lady I talked to on the phone was <b>so</b> impressed with how "noble" and "brave" I was by volunteering with the Peace Corps, that she offered to cut my termination fee in half. I didn't even ask, she just threw it out there. Now, how often does THAT happen in the cellular business world?! (Ok, you don't have to tell me... trust me, I <b>know</b>.) Yeah, yeah, she didn't waive the entire fee, but it's not like I discovered a cure for cancer or the secret to flight. I mean, an evil empire has got to pay the bills like everyone else, right? All the same, this very nice lady made me reconsider my death wish on the entire workforce of that corporation... so I proclaim here and now, she alone may live when the revolution comes.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1147317580014439522006-05-11T09:15:00.000+03:002006-05-11T18:30:08.930+03:00Le Plan.<i>Bonjour!</i> Since le French is le national language of le country in which I will be stationed, I have begun brushing up on my language skills in order to better my chances of le survival (and of le sexy conversation). I am proud to say that at this point I have mastered le words “the cat,” “the table,” “the man,” and “the woman”; as well as le phrases “the cat is on the table”, and “the man is on the woman.” This is going to be easy as pie - or as the French would say, easy as <b><i>le</i></b> pie.<br /><br />For those of you who have asked, the country I will be volunteering in is <a href=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burkina_Faso>Burkina Faso</a>, a small, landlocked state in West Africa, just above Ghana and Côte d’Ivoire. It is one of the 5 poorest nations in the world; interestingly, however, its capital Ouagadougou is the home of FESPACO, which is (to quote Wikipedia) <a href=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fespaco>“<i>the biggest regular cultural event on the African continent.</i>”</a> It is also the largest film festival on the continent... which strikes your humble Dabbler as a coincidence of some note, that, upon quitting his job at a Hollywood agency, he should be assigned here of all places. Perhaps he shall, in the future, help pave the way for the company's West African office. What? Too sinister and opportunistic for a Peace Corps volunteer to be considering, you say? Perhaps you are right. Still, I am looking forward to checking out this event in Burkina's capital city next February!<br /><br />In the more immediate future, on Friday I will be driving down to New York City, where I plan to catch up with all the good friends I have missed since moving to California; I will perhaps also be meeting some of the <i>new</i> friends I have made through writing this blog, such as the great minds behind <a href=http://feistyred.easyjournal.com/>Tales of a Delectable Redhead</a> and <a href=http://thisiswhatwedonow.com/>This is What We Do Now</a>. Sadly, I will be missing <a href=http://whitedade.blogspot.com>White Dade</a>, as he concludes his own series of Big Apple adventures just a day before I swing into town. Dade, I will be drinking an extra glass of beer (or 3) in your honor. Dear Readers, I honestly cannot wait to return to NYC, and once again shove my way through the crowded streets, glowering at everyone I pass as I blast music through my iPod. By the way, here's a quick iPod tip to anyone visiting the City: go to Grand Central during rush hour, and play the song "Brazil" while watching everyone bustle past you. Trust me, you will understand if you try it. <i>Perfect</i> soundtrack.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1147006827087420972006-05-09T10:39:00.000+03:002006-05-09T19:13:52.940+03:00Why the Peace Corps, You Ask?I received the following comment on my last post from an anonymous reader:<br /><br /><i>"Is there a 'peace corp' in the United States? Cuz i wonder..why so many people do the peace corp. why not just stay in the U.S. and help the areas that need it here...(areas that were hit by Katrina, EVERY urban/ghetto city,etc.)? Just so u can say 'yeayy i went to some 3rd world country and it was amazing!!?? For that, just visit. I dunno, i just see so many areas here that need help too. (sorry for the bitchiness)...."</i><br /><br />I had planned a lengthier response to these questions, but some other readers beat me to it in the <a href="http://dabblerdiary.blogspot.com/2006/05/i-love-that-dirty-water.html#links">comments section</a>, and stole all of my points. Still, Anonymous #1, as you took the time to write me, I feel I should respond. I actually did not feel your comment was bitchy, although I did find it somewhat presumptuous of my motives. You do make some valid points about the urgent need for aid within our own country (and <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/22015590">Mancini</a> is right that there is a domestic version of the Peace Corps for the United States, <a href="http://www.americorps.org/">Americorps</a>). However, the Peace Corps is more than a foreign aid program; its existence promotes mutual understanding between cultures with different lifestyles and values, which is something that I believe to be incredibly important in the world today. You may be right, that it is selfish of me to want to travel and see some of the world outside of this country, but a large part of why I want to volunteer <em>is</em> to experience another culture - and not merely as a vacationer with a camera; I want to fully submerge myself in another way of life, in order to fully understand and appreciate it.<br /><br />Since graduating from college and having lived in the day-to-day “real world" for nearly four years now, I have come to realize that nearly everything I know about the world outside of my immediate experience is taught to me by films, books, or the media. As time goes by, I am becoming more and more consumed with a need to experience these things personally, from my own viewpoint, rather than rely on some other source telling me “this is the way things are," and having to accept it at that. In addition, the international events of the last few years have convinced me that no person can - or should - be an island, and that it is important to understand and converse with those around you, especially those who are very different from you. So, in serving with the Peace Corps, I aim to learn about a culture different from my own by embracing it rather than observing it as a tourist; to pursue work I believe has some meaning and purpose beyond merely supporting myself; and to teach others about my country in the same way I hope they will teach me about theirs.<br /><br />Thank you, Anonymous #1, for forcing me to look within and remind myself of why I need to do this now and put my career on hold. Thank you, Anonymous #2 and Mancini, for bolstering my convictions that what I am attempting to do is both crucial and honorable.<br /><br />And to the rest of you: I promise to be funny again soon.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1146628089830582792006-05-05T09:01:00.000+03:002006-05-11T00:12:30.946+03:00I Love That Dirty Water.My plane flew into Boston from LA a few days ago, and I think I am finally beginning to adjust to the time zone difference. I have been absolutely useless until this afternoon. (Some one would probably argue I've been useless a lot longer than that, but that's why I don't return their phone calls.) Everything went very well on the flight, except for right before take-off, when I was chatting with the people sitting next to me and I innocently announced, "I can't wait to <b>crash</b>," then - noticing several heads suddenly jerk around to stare at me - I lamely added, "Uh, I mean, you know, sleep. Because I'm so tired. Because I haven't slept in 2 days. Because...." Assured that I was merely an idiot, and not a terrorist, the other passengers glared then returned to their upright and locked positions watching the stewardess (er, flight attendant) perform the safety dance. Not one of my better moments in public speaking... but then again, unfortunately, not one of my worst, either.<br /><br />My apologies for not posting sooner since my departure from LA, but well... ever since I arrived at my parents' house I really have had nothing too interesting to share with you. I do not wish to bore you, Dear Readers, with the details of my trip, or how my mother has slowly been killing me by zealously over-feeding me since I stepped foot off the plane. On the upside, I commence my Peace Corps orientation in Washington, DC on June 4, which leaves me plenty of time to suffer a panic attack or do something exceedingly stupid that will bar me from leaving the country. Rest assured, should either of these two possibilities occur, you will be among the first to know. At the moment, I am alternating between researching the information the Peace Corps has sent me about my country (which makes me very excited so begin my volunteer work) and reading <i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0452287081/ref=pd_lpo_k2a_1_img/104-4016081-2857565?%5Fencoding=UTF8">Confessions of an Economic Hit Man</a></i>... in which the author claims that for at least the past 50 years, all United States foreign aid has been merely a front to help destroy third world countries' economies and make them dependant on our own, thus enlarging our global corporatocratic empire (which fills me with self-loathing for being a part of the machine). Needless to say, my recent choice of reading materials has made for a pretty interesting way to prepare for foreign service. I don't know what possessed me to combine the two.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1146268934549789462006-04-29T00:22:00.000+03:002006-05-03T09:13:24.156+03:00Some Star-Spangled Banter.As I was driving in my car earlier this morning, listening to my favorite latin music station (Latino 96.3), the DJs began discussing a song that was released a few days ago, a Spanish language version of the American national anthem, "<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Star-Spangled_Banner">The Star-Spangled Banner</a>." The song in question, "Nuestro Himno," has created quite a lot of controversy in its few days of existence (due in part to the timing of its release, right before this coming Monday's "Day Without Immigrants"), to the point that even our illustrious <a href="http://www.currentera.com/Images/BushFinger_thmb.jpg">President</a> has been asked to <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2006/US/04/28/bush.anthem.ap/index.html">weigh in on the subject</a>. The man behind the the new song, British music producer Adam Kidron, claims that the song is not intended to put up language barriers or divide Americans, but rather to serve as a unifying force, enabling immigrants who have not yet achieved fluency in English to understand and appreciate the message of the anthem. What exactly is the problem with this? Look: no one is suggesting that "Nuestro Himno" replace "The Star-Spangled Banner" as the national anthem; I sincerely doubt people will be expected to stand at baseball games and sing in Spanish, and this isn't the first step in an insidious foreign plot to subvert the national language. This is an intercultural celebration of what is great about the United States. Why do we Americans have such a chip on our collective shoulder? We complain incessantly about how the rest of the world doesn't appreciate what we do and what we stand for, but if someone tries to love us slightly differently from how we demand, we spit their face. There you have it: America is officially <span style="font-weight:bold;">The Worst Girlfriend Ever</span>.<br /><br />Thinking about the furor generated by the release of this song got me to reflect on another relatively recent controversy concerning messages of American patriotism: the argument about the wording of the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pledge_of_allegiance">Pledge of Allegiance</a>. I don't quite understand the uproar that has been caused by the suggestion of removing the words "under God" from the line "one nation, under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all." The Pledge has actually gone through 3 incarnations since it was first written by Francis Bellamy in 1892. In fact, until 1954, the Pledge did not even include the words "under God" - they were inserted into the oath by Congress after some aggressive campaigning on the part of various Christian groups. So you see, it's not really disrespectful to suggest changing the wording of the Pledge of Allegiance, if it has already been revised multiple times since its conception. Plus, the last 2 changes were made almost exactly 30 years apart from each other, the last one being in 1954; you <span style="font-style:italic;">could</span> say that it's now past time for another verbal facelift.<br /><br />Let us not ignore that when this country was still a collection of colonies, many of them were founded by people trying to escape persecution of their respective religions. They came to this land to freely practice whatever religious faith they followed, without fear of reprisal. (Granted, whether or not they wanted Muslims, Jews, Catholics, Buddhists, and Hindus to share in this freedom is up for debate.) I know that some of the more extreme Christian groups in this country are fond of complaining about how the United States is being turned into a godless nation and their right to worship freely is being threatened; I would point out to them that no one is infringing on their ability to worship how they please, and in all fairness they should extend the same courtesy to those who follow a different faith, or even no faith at all. History has shown us that you do not necessarily need to be Christian to be a moral and upstanding citizen, and vice versa.<br /><br />On a side note, it seems to me that pledging allegiance to an inanimate object - such as oh, say, a <span style="font-weight:bold;">flag</span> - comes dangerously close to practicing idolatry. So, to those who are scandalized by the blasphemy of attempting to merely remove what was awkwardly added in the first place, I would suggest that you read your Ten Commandments before you cast the first stone.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1146125034837984312006-04-27T09:56:00.000+03:002006-04-28T17:52:59.046+03:00Color Me Your Color, Baby.Well, we’re now up to the latter half of season 10 of <span style="font-style:italic;">Friends</span>, and the apartment is slowly coming together. All furniture (aside from my bed) has been sold or donated, my kitchen has been emptied of all food and pots and pans, and stacks of papers, books, and DVDs lean precariously throughout my little studio. Yes, Dear Readers, I know: this all must be just fascinating for you.<br /><br />Okay, okay... here's a little Hollywood bitchiness for you, one last hurrah before I start going on and on about Africa and the Peace Corps and kissing babies and my impending run for Congress in 2021. I’m sure many of you are familiar with the famed flakiness of Californians, and <a href="http://www.answers.com/topic/angeleno">Angelenos</a> in particular... Now, I ain't being a hater when I say this, because, honestly, <span style="font-style:italic;">it's all true</span>. And boy, is it hitting home for me, now more than ever. You see, on top of packing and my other preparations to leave LA, I am also attempting to schedule last-minute, last-time hang-out sessions with many friends and acquaintances all over town. These very nice people are threatening me with everything up to (and including) castration if I leave without hanging with so-and-so one more time, but when I try to nail these eager friends down on a specific time or even DAY, I get the ol' "Yeah, I might be free sometime later in the week... Dude, you should totally call me!" <span style="font-style:italic;">Dude</span>. I been callin', I been textin', in one case I even holla'd. Seriously, I really don't have the time to play these fun little Hollywood mind games right now. If you want to see me before I leave town, how about this: <span style="font-weight:bold;">you</span> call <span style="font-weight:bold;">me</span>.<br /><br />Man, if only I had another 2 months left in town, so we could do this little dance properly: you have your assistant pencil me in for a lunch sometime 3 weeks from now (no, I'm not available anytime before then, it's impossible), we'll reserve a table at <a href="http://www.gayot.com/restaurantpages/LosAngelesInfo.php?tag=LARES00494-01&code=LA">Spago</a>; I'll reschedule the morning of, because I'm absolutely <span style="font-style:italic;">swamped</span> with the responsibilities of my powerful, incredibly demanding job; but maybe we can move lunch to sometime next week (of course we can't, because now it's <span style="font-style:italic;">your</span> turn to cancel, so you don't look too eager or unpopular). A month-and-a-half from now, you say? Something just opened up? Fabulous, hook it up! (But call back in a minute, so you can tell my assistant, because I don't deal with the scheduling.) But let's not do Spago - too trendy, too many industry types there... shall we say <a href="http://www.gayot.com/restaurantpages/LosAngelesInfo.php?tag=LARES0072&code=LA">Barney Greengrass</a>? Oh, and I'll bill it to the company, but I'm going to have to change your title to <span style="font-style:italic;">executive</span> vice president, because it looks just a tad more impressive to those snoops in Accounting. Love you, mean it, <span style="font-style:italic;">ciao</span>. Now... when should we have drinks?<br /><br />Ah, I'm really going to miss this place.<br /><br />-Dabbler<br /><br />P.S. Points to anyone who gets the reference in the title.<br /><br />P.P.S. Without googling it.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1145956019286336322006-04-25T08:33:00.000+03:002006-04-26T05:12:02.433+03:00Escape from L.A.My big LA send-off shindig was a few days ago, and my lungs have finally stopped feeling like ash. It was all I could have wished for: a glorious night under the stars, with nearly all the friends I have made in this town (as well as quite a few new people whom I regret I will not get to know better), crowded onto the top deck of the Formosa Cafe in West Hollywood; I am proud that I was able to put together an event like this all by myself. I am <span style="font-weight:bold;">also</span> proud that I behaved myself the entire night... no black-outs, no drunken tackling of unfortunate women, no destruction of burger restaurants. Yes, this time I was a perfectly affable host, right up until the bartender announced "Last call," whereupon I slammed down several shots and inhaled the last of my cigarettes. (What? I had to get my kicks in somewhere.) And now, with less than a week before I fly out to the east coast, it is time to get organized. <span style="font-style:italic;">Yeah, okay then</span>.<br /><br />A big part of how I have made such a successful career of dabbling is that I am a compulsive procrastinator, with a diagnosed case of adult ADHD. I know, everyone delays, everyone puts off... but <span style="font-weight:bold;">no one</span> can claim to have made as much an art of it as I. For the past 3 days, despite my honest-to-God best efforts, I appear to have accomplished... well, nothing, in all of my multiple aborted attempts to pack up my studio apartment and sell off my furniture. Right now, it looks like I have at least managed to move everything in my apartment around quite nicely - to the point that it looks like I experienced a violently psychotic episode. Tables and chairs lay strewn about, halfway taken apart, because in the middle of removing the legs from my glass-top coffee table I decided I needed a break and spent the rest of the afternoon watching <span style="font-style:italic;">Entourage</span> episodes. Then I needed to take a break from that to order pizza with my next-door neighbors, and eat until the food coma washed over me so I had to retire to my bed to nap it off. My first official day of unemplyoment, and I'm already falling apart.<br /><br />Well, not tomorrow! Tomorrow I will work: I will sell my furniture to thrift shops or donate to charities; I will call to confirm my appointment to ship my car; I will put aside the cigarettes, but not the booze (<span style="font-style:italic;">never</span> the booze); I will pack, I will clean, I will be productive with what little time I have left, so for once in my entire life I am not left panicking at the Zero Hour! Or, maybe instead I will finish watching the 9th season of <span style="font-style:italic;">Friends</span>. I don't know, it's a little early to tell right now.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1145512572544195932006-04-20T08:40:00.000+03:002006-04-25T15:59:37.283+03:00Topic of Cancer.My departure from Hollywood and all things Californian is imminent; my last day working at the agency is this Friday, and a week after that I fly back east to spend some quality time with friends and family before shipping out to Africa.<br /><br />I have a trusty new cell phone, which I have already managed to drop once. I have sturdy, trendy Ikea furniture I am hawking to bidders, an expensive item of which shattered on its way to a buyer last night. After obnoxiously harassing my car insurance company and the California DMV for weeks, I am now cleared to get my car repaired of all recently-incurred damages before I ship it out east next Friday. Utilities are in the process of being cancelled, apartment is (kinda) getting organized, and I am training my replacement at the office, desperately pretending I know what I'm doing. In my little free time, I am starting drink like a fish and chain-smoke like a chimney, before going back to multi-tasking 20 different personal matters while maintaining the phone lines at my Hollywood job. Stress: it’s what’s for dinner.<br /> <br />Change is in the winds, Dear Readers. I am not panicking yet, but I can feel the storm building in the back of my brain. My star sign is <a href="http://www.astrologycom.com/cancer.html">Cancer</a>, and in many ways I am a classic example of the type: I am sentimental, nostalgic, and I crave security and familiarity. With all these tendencies, the current happenings in my life are for me a whirling nightmare of anxiety – and yet, I am simultaneously exhilarated by the events I have set in motion. In 2 months, I will have been living in Africa for over 2 weeks. I have no idea what awaits me, which terrifies my inner control-freak; but I am about to embark on a grand adventure into the world, which thrills the wanderlust dreamer within me.<br /><br />One evening a few weeks ago, as I was killing some time before a party, staring into the <a href="http://www.wunderground.com/wximage/viewsingleimage.html?mode=singleimage&handle=clearlakemike&number=15&album_id=15&thumbstart=0&gallery=">fountain at the Pacific Design Center</a> in West Hollywood, I came to an epiphany of sorts. When I was very young, perhaps around 6 years of age, I wanted to see as much of the world as possible, to see all the wonderful things I had seen in movies for myself, with my own eyes. I wanted to live in New York City and feel the city rush, to live in Los Angeles and see the Hollywood Sign rising above me in the hills, to explore castles in Europe and savannahs and jungles in Africa. Now, in my mid-20s, I have braved the teeming streets of Times Square during rush hour, brushed shoulders with the power players of Tinseltown, crawled through ancient strongholds in England, and come within a few tantalizing feet of touching the “D” of the Hollywood Sign with my hand… right before being pursued by an LAPD helicopter for trespassing. And now I am on the verge of traveling thousands of miles to live and work in West Africa, to begin a whole new set of adventures and experiences. I realized in that moment, gazing into that fountain, that I am incredibly lucky. Despite my perpetual frustration with not yet figuring out what I want to do with my life, or finding that one person I want to spend it with, I have been blessed with the chance to make my childhood dreams reality. In fact, it is perhaps <span style="font-style:italic;">because</span> of my dissatisfaction and curiosity that I have been allowed to experience so much; if I had found what I wanted right away, I never would have gone any further. And viewed from that perspective, I am damn thankful for everything that has led me up to this point.<br /><br />I realize, of course, that I won’t be thinking of this tomorrow, when I’m cursing my miserable lot in life because I have misplaced a crucial contract, been overcharged on my electricity bill, or scalded myself with another cup of coffee. But it’s important to sometimes take a step back from the minutiae of your life and look at the puzzle as a whole.<br /><br />See? Quintessential Cancer.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1145035381699441872006-04-14T22:22:00.000+03:002006-04-23T22:50:54.463+03:00The Great Cell Phone Massacre of '06.Apologies, Dear Readers, for my relatively sparse correspondence this week. I have been distracted as of late, with annoying "real world" problems, such as preparing for my replacment at work, trying to sell my apartment furniture before the big move, and organizing a kick-ass going-away party.<br /><br />And then there is my cell phone.<br /><br />In recent weeks, many of my possessions have been spontaneously falling apart on me. Until today, I was handling it all with (what I thought was) remarkable patience and poise. There was my car, but its damages can be easily attributed to the 2-accidents-in-1-weekend phenomenon from a month ago, rather than to some malicious cosmic entity. Then my VCR broke a few weeks ago, followed by my DVD player 1 week later, and I resorted to watching movies on my laptop computer. Around that time my wristwatch also broke, so I started keeping track of the time on my cellular phone instead. Then one day, the phone suddenly stopped getting a signal in my apartment, so I began stepping outside in order to have a phone conversation; a week after that, my phone refused to receive a signal even there, so I had to walk to the edge of the street outside my building in order to continue enjoying cellular service; then, 2 weeks ago, my cell phone's display screen stopped working, which made calling people in my address book difficult and reading text messages impossible. And here is where the fun begins...<br /><br />Finally deciding that something must be done, I visit a Cingular store (for my service is "supplied" by Cingular Wireless) this past weekend, in order to get my phone either repaired or replaced. It is there that I discover my 1-year warranty on the phone expired literally <strong>The Day</strong> before its screen died, and I am thus expected to pay over $100 to get it replaced. I point out the fantastic coincidence that my phone stopped working 24 hours after its insurance coverage ended, and the Cingular employee there takes pity on me, types something into his computer, and informs me he has extended my warranty for an additional week so I can send my phone in for a free replacement. All I need do is call the number he hands me, and a new phone will be mailed to me within days. As a matter of fact, this is not the case, because upon trying the number I learn that Cingular's repair hotline is closed on the weekend; however, I am content to wait until Monday to try again, pleased with the knowledge that - for once - my cell phone company is not going to try to screw me.<br /><br />Come Monday, I call the service hotline and, after being on hold for over half an hour, am informed that, regardless of what the Cingular store employee promised me, my warranty was <em>not</em> extended, and I will have to pay the $100-something fee for a new phone. Re-explaining my situation, I am able to convince the sympathetic customer service representative to make an exception in my case and extend my warranty, and he transfers me over to the exchanges department. After being kept on hold for another 20 minutes, I speak to yet another operator, make all the arrangements, and then am I told <em>once again</em> that there is no mention in my file of any warranty extension, and I must pay a hefty fee (ballpark figure of $100) for any repairs or exchanges. At this point, my patience runs out, and I demand to speak to a supervisor. On hold for 5 minutes, then the operator gets back on the line and announces they will extend my warranty after all. Flushed with triumph and pride for taking charge of the situation so awesomely, I agree to pay extra for express shipping, thrilled that in 2 days I will receive a brand-new, fully-functioning replacement phone.<br /><br />Cut to 4 days later: Friday, today. Have not received my phone, have not received any updates. Start to worry that maybe I was not so triumphant or awesome after all. Call Cingular Wireless, give them my confirmation number... and I am told that the order was <strong>CANCELLED</strong> the day after I made it, because phones that have been owned for less than a month cannot be exchanged. Blood begins pounding in my head as I explain<em>... as... calmly... as... possible...</em> that I have owned my current phone for over a year. The operator checks his records and then sees "someone" made a mistake and cancelled the order because they thought I purchased my phone in April 2006, not 2005. They apologize for the confusion, and assure me that the phone will be sent as speedily as possible -- but I am aware that I will be charged $115 because the warranty expired, right?<br /><br />Memo to corporate executives of Cingular Wireless: <strong>may you and all your kind burn in a hell run by your very own "customer service" operators.</strong> I cannot possibly express how much pain and sorrow I wish upon your heads right now -- simply know that I am usually not a violent person, but right now I would gleefully sodomize each and every one of you with samples from your line of cellular products, your screams for mercy sweet ringtones to my ears. Until I leave the country, sleep with both eyes open, you miserable bastards.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1144865583593951522006-04-12T21:10:00.000+03:002006-04-13T05:17:05.706+03:00On Free Speech and My Blog.Unlike some people, such as my more controversially-inclined comrade <a href="http://whitedade.blogspot.com">White Dade</a>, I do reserve the right to delete comments from my blog. I have no problem with allowing comments to be posted that are critical of me or my opinions, or express thoughts that I personally disagree with, but there is a line. Anything I find overtly racist, sexist, or generally hate-mongering will be allowed no commenting space. Who determines what is offensive and what is not? Why, <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/18073201">me</a>, of course. To those who ask, "<em>Isn't that subjective reasoning, and a conflict of interests,</em>" I reply, "<em>Yes, and get over it.</em>" This blog is a Dabblocracy, Dear Readers, which I rule with a benevolent-yet-iron fist.<br /><br />Please pardon my outburst, but I hate <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_troll">trolls</a>.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1144196189650236262006-04-12T00:23:00.000+03:002006-04-12T21:08:59.896+03:00The Mark of Irony.How cool is <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Irony_mark">this</a>?! I <em>knew </em>those French were good for something! Do you know how much easier my life would be if I could include this symbol in everyday conversation? Hell, think of how much easier <em>everyone's</em> life would be... you could write things like "I think President Bush is doing a great job؟", and no one would misunderstand (or misunderestimate) you. Sure, most of the fun in using irony is in its subtlety (broadcasting the fact that you're being facetious kind of weakens your point's impact), but think of what a boon this would be to stupid people everywhere, who just cannot comprehend irony - or its lovely stepsister, sarcasm - no matter how hard they try. We should <strong>demand</strong> that this symbol be integrated into popular use, for the good of the whole. The language barrier would finally be breached! Come on! Who's with me?!<br /><br />-Dabbler<br /><br />P.S. Am I the only one excited here?<br /><br />P.P.S. I am not a French-hater. They have contributed many other wonderful things to the world: baguettes, champagne, pasteurization and rabies vaccinations (both inventions of Louis Pasteur), the literary works of Alexandre Dumas, mimes, the guillotine, and those funny little <a href="http://www.natashascafe.com/images/products/beretgenemk2.jpg">hats</a>.<br /><br /><strong>Update:</strong><br />Apparently I am not the first to reclaim this wonderful innovation. <a href="http://blogs.msdn.com/fontblog/archive/2006/01/04/509299.aspx">Kevin Larson</a> beat me to it by 3 entire months. I think I'll blame the French for this...Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1144394380632550872006-04-08T02:25:00.000+03:002006-04-26T01:11:29.883+03:00MYspace. Not YourSpace.Dear Girl-I-Dated-for-Several-Weeks-but-Have-Not-Heard-from-in- the-Few-Months-Since-You-Stomped-on-My-Dignity-with-Your-Uggs: if you want to try to be friends now, I would prefer it if you returned my last phone call, instead of contacting me on <a href="http://myspace.com">MySpace</a> with a request to add you to my friends list. Please keep in mind that I haven't heard from you since the beginning of January, when I left you a phone message asking if you were okay, because I knew that you had left work not feeling well; I never got an answer. I tried to be friends, I made the effort, and you shot it down by playing the silence card. And now, this is how you get back in touch with me. How quaint. Understand this: I don't add <em>strangers</em> to my friends list; why would I add someone with whom I actually have a reason to be angry? I am sorely tempted to not even give you the courtesy of denying the add request, and just let it hang unanswered. I would call you to explain all this, about how you hurt and embarrassed me, and why I think your request is inappropriate -- but I deleted your number from my phone a while ago.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1144383894129911172006-04-07T07:23:00.000+03:002006-04-13T00:41:33.273+03:00The Glamorous Life of (Waiting on) the Stars.I received the following question today from an anonymous commentator:<br /><br /><span style="font-style:italic;">"Do you think being an assistant at an agency can eventually get you a position as a personal assistant to an A or B list actor? Bc that's what I want to do, and u didn't mention that in ur list (agent, producer, executive, director, etc.)"</span><br /><br />Well, Anonymous, I do not pretend to be an expert in these matters, but here is my opinion after over a year of toiling away in Hollywood: yes, working as an assistant at an agency can eventually land you a job as a personal assistant to an A- or B-List actor. The way this usually happens is an assistant working for a big agent forms a bond with his/her boss' clients, and they may either try to recruit him/her ("What are you doing working there? You should be with me!"), or the assistant might ask the agent to recommend him/her if a client is looking for a new assistant. A friend of mine did just that several months ago, after having given his agent boss a year of good work, and is now the assistant to the writers behind one of the biggest movies coming out this summer. (A third possible route is when the assistant stupidly decides to solicit clients without first asking the agent's permission, creating an unnecessary enemy of the jilted boss.)<br /><br />Be warned, however: there isn't always much opportunity for growth in a personal assistant job. Such a position rarely develops into a producing or directing deal (although there are exceptions to the rule), and an actor boss will almost certainly feel threatened by an assistant who also wants to act. If I may be so bold, I would recommend that you pick up a copy of the book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0684869586/sr=8-1/qid=1144382388/ref=pd_bbs_1/102-7000401-5236949?%5Fencoding=UTF8"><span style="font-style:italic;">It's All Your Fault : How To Make It As A Hollywood Assistant</span></a>, which gives a detailed breakdown of how to get and what to expect from pretty much any assistant job in Hollywood. Another veritable fountain of useful information is <a href="http://assistantatlas.blogspot.com">Assistant/Atlas</a>, the patron blogging saint of Hollywood assistants, who was able to escape his indentured servitude at an agency and find employment as a writer for television.<br /><br />And now, that's quite enough of me playing the wizened Hollywood sage. Please stay tuned for more posts of the dabbling persuasion! Some Bat Time, Same Bat Blog.<br /><br /><span style="font-weight:bold;">Update:<br /></span>I should add that when interviewing for an assistant position, it would be best not to mention the fact that you plan on using the job as a springboard to another. No prospective employer likes to hear that.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21778491.post-1144048267759192992006-04-05T22:15:00.000+03:002006-04-08T23:04:25.996+03:00Dabbler ♥'s His Job. (Kinda.)My <a href="http://dabblerdiary.blogspot.com/2006/03/agency-blues.html">recent attempt at songwriting</a> seems to have struck a chord, so to speak, with my audience; suddenly I am receiving all kinds of attention and comments, ranging from a <a href="http://jintrinsique.blogspot.com/">pastry chef</a> in Wisconsin, to a <a href="http://igetsoweary.blogspot.com/"> creatively weary New Yorker</a>, to the mighty <a href="http://assistantatlas.blogspot.com/">Assistant/Atlas</a> of Hollywood. I am simultaneously thrilled and apprehensive about the response; I knew that poking fun at my job, even in a joking way, had its risks… After I posted <em>The Agency Blues</em> I showed it to a fellow assistant at the agency, a man whose opinion I trust, and watched him blanch as he read it. After he was done, he gave me a look and said tactfully, “It’s a little… angry, isn’t it?” <em>Uh-oh.</em> There is now the remote possibility that my sudden blip of blogging fame may have some previously unforeseen consequences, should word continue to spread (i.e., me getting fired from the agency before I can quit).<br /><br />In light of this new development, I have decided to take the time to point out some of the positive aspects of working in an agency, in order to mollify any injured fellow assistants and encourage future sharks in suits to take the plunge, as well as to unabashedly cover my ass. And yes, there <em>are </em>positive aspects. <br /><br />Benefits of being a talent agency assistant include: it is <strong>The</strong> perfect entry-level job to transition to anywhere else in the entertainment industry; having the opportunity to mix with famous people on an almost daily basis (by "mix with" I of course mean "fetch their low-fat, no-sugar, iced mocha latte"); receiving advance notice on the best new movies and shows coming out; and, perhaps most importantly, attractive actresses are more likely to sleep with you. Out of all of these, the first on the list is - in my opinion - the biggest reason why anyone headed to Hollywood should strongly consider applying to become an assistant at an agency. Whether you want to eventually become an agent, producer, executive, director, or writer, the job experience is invaluable, as working for Hollywood’s middlemen exposes you to a generous portion of the inner workings and important names of the business. Finally, for all the crap agents get in this town (and on this blog), if you get yourself a <em>good</em> one, one who really believes in his/her clients and will fight to get them what they deserve, you've got the best ally you could ever possibly have... doing all kinds of things for you that you'd really rather not know about. <br /><br />Now, all that being said, I do not wish to retract anything I wrote in <em>The Agency Blues</em>. I got the blues, and I got them bad. It is time for me to take a breather from Hollywood, to rejuvenate my creative drive and ambitions, and gain some more experience out there in the “real” world. I'm tired of dabbling here -- when I come back I want a definite idea of what I want to be and how I'm going to do it. Who knows? Perhaps I’ll come back wanting to be an agent. Doubtful... but possible. <br /><br />So, Dear Readers, please read on... your humble Dabbler is not yet done with the land of sun, stars, and sin. And Dear Boss (and Boss’ Boss), please don’t fire me.Dabblerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16949046811641855205noreply@blogger.com8